The way to progress to the next stage with a woman after you have her phone number is to invite her on a coffee date. A cafe has the perfect casual atmosphere to assist you in building a good high quality connection with the woman you desire.

The probability that a woman will accept your invitation for coffee is much greater than that of her accepting an invitation to a more formal date such as dinner or the movies. Because it's short and in a public place there's no underlying expectations for her to become intimate or be exposed to a situation that may make her feel uncomfortable.

The majority of men severely underestimate the significance of these courtship dynamics when initially asking a woman out. Women will be more receptive to the idea of going on a real date with you after you've taken them out for a coffee first. This keeps the courtship at a comfortable pace for her. Women are naturally more inclined to take things slower than men throughout the initial stages of courtship.

The average woman needs to be in your company for 8 hours before she will feel comfortable enough to become intimate with you. How you make use of these 8 hours is of crucial importance if you ever want to be with her. Taking her on a short coffee date for no longer than 40 minutes and then taking her on a second date which lasts for seven hours is the best way to utilize these 8 hours. First dates such as dinner and/or the movies don't work because of their failure to utilize these 8 hours correctly.

If you're able to build a great connection with her on the coffee date then she'll definitely see you again. But at around the 40 minute mark the intensity and quality of this connection will level out somewhat and this is where women can become easily bored.

After spending 40 minutes with her talking and flirting it's totally natural for her to want to become intimate with you. When this doesn't happen women can become frustrated and bored with you. The catch is, no matter how well you flirt with her, although she'll feel like becoming intimate with you, she won't because she hasn't been with you for 8 hours.

This is where time fractionating comes into play. When the 8 hours is split into a 40 minute coffee date followed by a 7 hour second date, the chances of her wanting to become intimate with you skyrocket. Whether the girl is you're future wife or whether she is your next short term fling, the most effective way of succeeding with her is a short 40 minute date followed by a long 7 hour date.

The purpose of the coffee date is to create a good connection with her so she feels compelled to go on a second date with you. After spending a maximum of 40 minutes with her you'll have a sound idea of what she likes doing for fun and you'll be able to plan a much more effective second date for her. You would've also increased the quality of your connection with her before asking her out on an official date.

Most common dates like the movies and dinner fail because you don't really know enough about the woman to spend two or three hours with her. These two or three hours aren't enough time to allow her to feel comfortable enough to become intimate with you anyway. You won't increase the quality of your connection with her anymore than you would've if you'd just spent 40 minutes with her. Only spending 40 minutes with her will leave her with a feeling of eagerness rather than boredom and it allows the seduction to move at a pace that is more natural for her.

If you can generate a good connection and then end the date after 40 minutes it will leave her in a state of anticipation. When you ask her out again you'll know exactly where to take her and what to feed her. She'll be much more receptive to the idea of going on a second date with you and by the end of your perfectly planned second date she might not be able to take her hands off you.

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