Recently I took an inventory of my failures and how I contributed to them. Actually, I took an inventory of my whole life. I looked over everything as honestly as I could. What I realized through this process was I had not been totally playing 100% in my game of life.

This made me recognized that others are not actually playing 100% their best game of life. When a person does not play 100%, there is a greater chance they are not going to win. You may ask why don't people play 100% in their games. There are various reasons, but too many to put in a short article. However, there are a couple of basic thoughts which cause people to hold back. There are some simple things people can do to enhance the process of Upgrading Life to the next level.

Number one is that intelligent people are afraid and confused. There is a human tendency for us to hold onto many fears. These fears are all based inside their heads as fantasies. Fear is not real. We create fear in our mind when we think about the future. The first thing do to is to realized what we are afraid of and understand that it is simply something we are making up. Many times we regret past mistakes and the future appears to be very scary. Fear resides in the future. Stay in the present moment.

Sometimes intelligent people will say "I am not afraid of anything. I am just stressed out." Stress is another intelligent way of saying "I am afraid." Some people express their fears as anger. Actually, all anger is fear based. It would be a wise idea for a person who gets angry to find what the room cause is. Once the root fear is identified, the person can begin to reason with themselves and create a more stable reality to reduce the fear and diminish the anger.

Another reason why people don't play 100% in their games is they only focus on the current limitations to achieving their dreams and don't stay focused on their desired results. Anyone who has achieved any greatness in life, in anything, on any level, ignored why something couldn't be done and instead chose to stay focused on what they wanted. This is where intelligent people can actually possess a handicap.

Also, intelligent people will logically tell you why something can not be done. However, "winners" have an advantage of not knowing why something can't be done. They only declare what they want. This advantage allows "winners" to do the impossible. What do you see around you? You see all of the impossible things from light bulbs to planes. These were discovered by people who did not concentrate on why something couldn't be done. They focused only on what they wanted.

When we continue to concentrate only on the results we want in life and not on the obstacles or limitations, we win. We achieve the things other people will say are impossible. Lack of money, time, or other resources is of course included in this part of our conversation.

I want to encourage you to go for what you truly want without paying attention to why it seems impossible, including your current limitations. When you move forward and disregard your fears while concentrating on why something can be done, you will succeed beyond your wildest dreams.

Welcome to the world of winners. You are now discovering the secret to why some people succeed in life and business while others simply go through life wishing for something better.

Greater success is much closer than you think.

With Kind Regards,

Dr. Michael J. Duckett

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